One
day, many centuries ago, a little Hindu boy named Arujani was playing outside,
when he stumbled upon a lotus seed pod, with some seeds still left in it.
Excitedly, he took the pod home to his mother and asked if they could plant the
seeds.
His
mother said, “Oh! Of course! The lotus is a very special plant. Do you know
why, chookra?” (Which means “little
one” in Hindi)
Arujani
said, “I do not, mother, but I have a feeling you’re about to tell me.”
With
a smile and a little laugh, his mother said, “Indeed I am! The lotus flower
grows from the depths of a mud-encased bed, just a few inches below the surface
of a lake or a pond. As it grows, it reaches ever up towards the light, the
petals of the flower closed so tightly that no water or mud can get in. Once
the lotus is floating on top of the muddy lake, the sunlight opens its petals,
and the flower blossoms, ready to receive the warm, nourishing love of the sun.
Out of the dirt and mud comes something pure and beautiful. Isn’t that
interesting, little one?” Only half paying attention, Arujani said, “Uh, yeah.
Very interesting. So can we plant these now?” His mother laughed, and together
they walked outside to a nearby pond, waded into the water, and dropped the lotus
seeds into the muddy bed.
“Now
what?” The little boy asked.
“Now
we wait,” said his mother.
“Wait
for what?” Asked Arujani
“For
these seeds to find their path out of the mud.”
Every
day after they dropped the lotus seeds into the pond, Arujani would rush to the
edge to see if he could make out any growth. But every day, he saw nothing. If
anything was happening in the mud, he sure couldn’t tell.
“Mother,”
he said, “I think perhaps the seeds have died. How long has it been? Many moons
have passed, yet I see no sign of growth.”
“Patience,
my dear Arujani,” his mother said. “Growth takes time! You were not born able
to walk and find lotus seeds and ask so many questions! It has taken 10 years
for you to become who you are now. It will not take that long for the lotus,
but it’s forming beneath the surface even now, even though you can’t see it. Do
you understand what I’m saying to you?”
“Yes
mother, growth takes place beneath the surface. It was an obvious metaphor,” Arujani
said, somewhat defiantly. “Perhaps,” said his mother, “but you need to
understand the significance of the lotus blossom and what it means for our
people!”
“Why
do I feel another lesson coming on?”
Arujani asked.
Smiling
patiently and tussling her son’s jet-black hair, Arujani’s mother said, “the
lotus represents purity and beauty, my child, and the unfolding petals of the
flower that floats above the muck and mire suggest the expansion of our own
spiritual awareness as we grow from infants, to children, through adulthood and
old age.” Arujani thought about this
for a moment. “So, let me get this straight,” Arujani began, “are you saying
that we should stay above the muck and mire? That’s no fun! I love playing in
the mud!”
“Of
course you do!” Arujani’s mother proclaimed. “All little boys love playing in
the mud. I’m still speaking in metaphors though. Did I lose you?” She asked
wryly. “No, no, you didn’t lose me. I was just hoping we were finished so I
could go see if this lotus was blooming or not… and maybe play in the mud!”
Unfazed,
Arujani’s mother continued: “The lotus also represents hope, Arujani—that from
the depths of our often muddy and messy lives, spiritual growth still occurs.
Even though you love playing in the mud, Arujani, you still desire a bath
afterward, do you not?”
Arujani
thought about this for a minute. Then another minute. He kind of liked being
covered in mud, but he had to admit his mother was right. Eventually he wanted
the mud washed off. “Yes mother, it is true--once the mud starts to cake and
dry, it’s not much fun anymore—it’s just annoying.” Arujani’s mother said, “That’s
a good start. Now think about the lotus—it grows through the mud, but never
becomes muddy itself. Once the bud of the flower works through the murky water,
it floats gently on top, finally opening its petals—clean, brilliantly colored,
and perfect—untainted by its muddy birth and muddy existence.”
“So
you mean that the flower won’t have to wait for a rainstorm or a gardner to
cleanse it? It was born and will blossom perfectly?” Arujani asked. “That’s
correct, Arujani. Eventually the lotus will bloom, and it will be perfect, just
like you,” said his mother. “I’m not perfect, mother. Please! My grades are
average and I like to play in the mud.” Arujani said this somewhat dejectedly;
he was starting to think he should be more like the lotus blossom and maybe
work his way more carefully through the mud. Arujani’s mother laughed out loud.
“But that is perfect, chookra. It is
what little boys do. And life is about more than grades, it’s about what you
learn through the trials, not the grade on the trials themselves.”
“So
you don’t mind if I fail my exams?” Arujani asked, knowing full well this was not what
his mother meant. “You know better than that, Arujani. And you know very well
what I mean. Like the lotus, our life is full of adventure as we allow our
spirituality to unfold. Like the petals of the lotus, we are many-faceted
creatures, and like the lotus, our journey to spiritual awareness is perfect as
it is, no matter what path it takes. Do you know what our job is in life, Arujani?”
Arujani
thought for a moment, knowing this was going to be a trick question. “Well,
papa raises cows, and you cook magnificent meals. Uncle Krishna is in the army.
There are lots of jobs! I think I’d like to grow lotuses. Which reminds me—do
you think that lotus is blooming yet?” Arujani grabbed his mother’s arm and
began pulling her outside.
As
they walked toward the pond, his mother continued her lesson: “We all have
different careers, but our career is not our job. We have one job on this
earth, my love, and that is to allow our own lotus flower to fully bloom.”
“I
know where you’re going with this, mother,” Arujani said as they walked
hand-in-hand to the edge of the pond. “Like this lotus—hey! It’s floating on
the water’s surface!” He said excitedly. “And there are many more, too! They
are beautiful!”
“Yes
dear, exactly,” Arujani’s mother said. “There are many more lotuses, all over
the world, all working their way through the mud and into the light. There are
millions of us, born as clean as we ever will be, working our way through the
mud of life, and simply waiting to blossom.”
“To
blossom so we too can feel the warm light, mother?” Arujani asked.
“To
blossom so we too can be the warm light,
Arujani,” she replied.
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